Love

Love Notes By Joe D’ Mango on You Tube

I really do not watch television because of the few channels we have. Aside from that, i am more interested in watching, searching and reading online. Last few hours ago, i am looking for videos of my Rico Yan on youtube. Yes, yes..i’m totally addicted to him! After finding a video. Joe d’ the mango came across my mind.

Who will forget this guy?I used to watch him on ABC 5 when i was still very young. Yes! it was Love Notes by Joe d’ Mango. This guy has a soft and romantic voice. It is good that i saw his account dearjoedmango but the last time he sign in is 11 months ago. Too bad he did not continue posting videos.

This is the first video he posted:

Of course his advice:

For me, the girl should make the guy comfortable. It was not a happy ending.

:(

Joe d’ Mango really knows how to get the hearts of many people. It really feels good to talk about Love. My favorite topic is “Love”.

Lonely Single

Dear Heart;

I opened my facebook today. The place is busy. Jejemons are the favorite topic. While a lot of people are having huge discussion. I stumble upon a status message of a friend “Just because your not committed in any romantic relationship, it doesn’t mean it could keep you away from heartaches…” and I think it is also connected to the status of another friend “Job for the jobless… home for the homeless… bakit walang nangangako ng heart for the heartless?”

It is been a long time since I was a single. I thought single makes you free from any heartache because you can do anything you want but I am totally wrong. It makes me realize that people who are not in a relationship are more hurt than couples in a relationship. The pain of being lonely and the pain of trying to find the special someone.

You think they are happy but if you start to talk to them about love, they will not hesitate to let you know what is like to be single and lonely.

Heart please tell our other friend cupid to shoot his bow to them. I hope they will find the love they are longing to have.

Love Lots,

Paige

Different date, different outfit

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Dates are often stress-inducing situations. You’ve been put on the spot with someone who you barely know and are expected to impress them. Careful planning is needed for every aspect of your date in order to reduce this stress and because one minor hiccup could be enough to mean the next date is cancelled. All of the elements must be carefully considered – where you should go, how you should do your make-up, what conversations you should have, what conversations you should avoid having…

One of the most important things to consider – cliché, I know – is what you’re going to wear. Clothes are one of the first things someone notices about a person, so make sure you get them right. Plus, if you’ve met through dating websites or this is a blind date, your new match will have very little idea – if any – of what you look like and this will be the first chance to make an impact. So, here’s an idea of what to wear for your date, conveniently categorised by dating venue:

For a restaurant…

Restaurants are great places to dress up, especially if you’re going somewhere posh. The fact that you’ll be sitting down for most of the date also means its okay to risk wearing heels and feel fairly confident you won’t fall over in them! Go for a stylish and flattering, though not too suggestive, dress. Try to stick to one colour, as some patterns are off-putting and will distract from, rather than enhance, your figure. Then pick matching, though not too high, heels and a few pieces of delicate silver jewellery.

For a drink…

A drink is much less formal than a sit-down meal. Make sure you’re wearing acceptably sensible shoes here, as there could be dancing involved and you wouldn’t want to find yourself face-down in the middle of the dance floor! Why not wear dark-coloured fitted jeans or a pencil skirt and a figure-hugging top to place your style perfectly between smart and casual? Wear a small pair of heels, too – skinny jeans with stilettos are a particularly favoured look just now.

For a coffee…

Going for a coffee is so casual it can hardly even be called a date. Therefore, for this kind of date, you really don’t want to look like you’ve made too much of an effort. Try to just dress as you would normally and use the opportunity to bring out your personality through what you’re wearing. Maybe add an extra dab of make-up, though!

For a day out…

This will obviously depend entirely on what the ‘day out’ involves. Assuming it will be based mainly outdoors and consist of quite a bit of walking, wear something you’re comfortable in so you can enjoy your day as much as possible. Also, you’ll want to make sure you stay warm. A fitted pair of jeans with a pair of flat boots and an overly large jumper could be a good look. Also, wear a nice top underneath to wow them with when you stop for a coffee and start to shed layers.

For a show…

This is your chance to go really over-the-top, especially if it’s an opera or a theatre production. Go for an elegant long dress and glitzy accessories. Heels are definitely allowed, too, as again you’ll be sitting down for most of this date.

Whether you met through online dating London websites or on public transport, these outfits are bound to wow your date! Just make sure you’ve got the venue right!

Why Are You Single?

Have you ever ask yourself about the reasons why are you still single right now? You keep on feeling sorry for yourself whenever you see couples showing affection to each other. Keep on wishing and dreaming that someday, somehow you will find the partner that can give you happiness for the rest of your life.

Wake up now! Stop thinking about the relationship of other people. Do not be sorry about being single. Well, It is really good idea for me to enumerate the reasons. Check it out:

Fear

You had a relationship before with someone and it turns out that you are not compatible with each other. The love that you feel turns out to be the feeling that gives you nightmare. You are full of pain; you keep on crying over and over again. You suddenly felt the fear and do not want to be in any relationship again because you are afraid to have a broken hearted again.

High Standard

It is ok to think about having a relationship to a person who has beautiful face, sexy body, tall, kind, sweet etc. We are all dreaming about someone who will come into our lives and give us the joy in our hearts. But did you know that too much dreaming and expectations is not good? You should learn to open your eyes about the people that surround you. Listen to the heart and learn to stop expecting for a perfect partner that will come into your life. Remember this quote from me “Perfect love comes from two imperfect people who choose to be together”.

Free

You do not want a partner who will tell you what to do. You want freedom. You love to be on your own. You think emotional attachment can give you pain. Sometimes you want to go in a place where you can be alone and if your with someone you need to ask permission first but if your single you can go without asking person except to family members of course.

Busy

You are always doing a lot of stuff. You prioritize your career/studies and do not have time to think about love. You feel that career or studies is more important now. You do not want to balance love and career/studies.

Ignore the Feeling

Sometimes people keep on ignoring the feeling that they are actually inlove. They do not entertain it. The common reason is they are inlove with their friend and do not want to admit it because they do not want to break the friendship.

There are many reasons why a lot of people are single and reading about this article will help you to realize your own reason why up to now you are single.

4 Unique Date Ideas

What do you think is the most talk about topic this month? Great! February is what they called Love Month. The street will be busy again. All people especially couples are excited to celebrate the Love Month. For sure, there are many people thinking about surprises that they can do. Well, we have different ideas when it comes to celebrating the Love Month. New ideas are always good, trying new things can make the relation of couples spicier. As an unique person, I have different views and of course dreams when it comes to celebrating Love Month. Everyone is waiting for February 14 but if you will ask me 365 days a year should always be filled with love. Well, since it is a tradition I would like to share the things that I love to do during Love Month. It can be good or bad depending on what you think but for me life is interesting. Exploring is a great thing to do.

Date on the Room

Oooppsss… do not get me wrong! No! That is not what I am trying to say. LOL! I do not know if my husband still remembers this. In a very young age, you can say that I am insane and I need to admit that. I prepared a dinner date on my room. I do not cook and it is easy for me to order food to my favorite restaurant that offers sisig of course. I set a small table with foods and wine. We have a love songs music background and disco light. The light is turn off. After eating, I asked him to dance with me. I am not a guy and I am not shy to ask him. What can I do I am so much in love! Good thing my parents are not mad.

Date on the Cemetery

You may find it weird but me I find it exciting. Who said November 1 to 3 is the only date that we can visit cemetery? Come on! It is always a perfect place to have a picnic. I just love the whole idea. Sitting on the ground with full of snacks is cool. The place is quite and you can be sure that you will have a perfect chitchat with your partner. No one is around aside from the soul of people that you cannot see. LOL! I think it is a great place to show sweetness.

Date on the Fish Pond

Have you ever visited a pond while people are harvesting? Me, Yes! I love it so much. I was young when tatang is harvesting some fish and I am always with him. Until now I think it is good place to celebrate love Month. Catching fish is fun. Something new, something different is what I always love to do. While writing this, you can actually see me smiling. I want to try it soon.

Date on the Beach

I have never tried this before and I want to try it soon. We know that stress can kill us. I do not like walking on the beach during morning and afternoon. I love to walk on the evening. Holding hands with your special someone while viewing the beach can give you peaceful mind. I can give a big exhale for that. I am actually singing forevermore right now. LOL!

I love how Love Month gives us inspiration to continue loving. I hope you had the fun reading what i wrote and if you do not sorry I just love to share what my heart truly says.

Single Heart

Why hy it is so easy to comment on anyone’s lovelife?

Why it is so easy to comment on Love stories you watched?

why it is so easy to comment on Love?

Puzzle with missing piece

Books with no readers

Mineral water with no drinkers

Keep on listening to the story of Love

Keep on pretending that everything is fine

Keep on showing happy face but hiding lonely heart

Trying to find the reasons

Trying to find the answers

Trying to find who

No wishes of someone with their side

But hoping for someone who is willing to give love

And in return they will bring back love

Thinking about being single

Thinking about being single at the moment

Thinking about being single life forever

The heart keeps on shouting

The mouth keeps on whispering jokes on singleness

The hand keeps on writting painful status

I remembered reading

“I’m sick. I’m lonely and single too.

Who wants to take care of me?”

Cupid My friend

Do not Look anywhere else

Take time to look at the people around me

Falling Slowly By Glen Hansard

I don’t know you

But I want you

All the more for that

Words fall through me

And always fool me

And I can’t react

And games that never amount

To more than they’re meant

Will play themselves out

Take this sinking boat and point it home

We’ve still got time

Raise your hopeful voice you have a choice

You’ll make it now

Falling slowly, eyes that know me

And I can’t go back

Moods that take me and erase me

And I’m painted black

You have suffered enough

And warred with yourself

It’s time that you won

Take this sinking boat and point it home

We’ve still got time

Raise your hopeful voice you had a choice

You’ve made it now

Falling slowly sing your melody

I’ll sing along

I hate you But I love you

I think including my poem to the video makes it more powerful. What do you think?

Anyway, here is the poem:

I found the love in you

I am happy to be with you

But you make my heart breaks

I want to run away and leave you

I want to break the chain that you put around me

But If I will say goodbye

I know life will never be the same again

I know my heart will cry

You hurt me

You make feel so sad

But I will never forget that you tickle my heart

I hate the way you hurt me

But I love the way you show me your love

A Long and lasting love

I am willing to take the risk

I know you’re also willing to the risk

No matter how far it is

We have huge difference

But I know our love will bind us together

Hold my hand and hugg me tight

Let me kiss you

I want to spend the rest of my life with you

Even if I will feel the pain

I admit I hate you but I love you

The title of the song is I Hate you then i love you by Celine Dion and Luciano Pavarotti.

Here is the Lyrics

I’d like to run away from you

But if I were to leave you I would die

I’d like to break the chains you put around me

And yet I’ll never try

No matter what you do you drive me crazy

I’d rather be alone

But then I know my life would be so empty

As soon as you are gone

Impossible to live with you

But I could never live without you

For whatever you do / For whatever you do

I never, never, never

Want to be in love with anyone but you

You make me sad

You make me strong

You make me mad

You make me long for you / You make me long for you

You make me live

You make me die

You make me laugh

You make me cry for you / You make me cry for you

I hate you

Then I love you

Then I love you

Then I hate you

Then I love you, I Love You more

For whatever you do

I never, never, never

Want to be in love with anyone but you

You treat me wrong

You treat me right

You let me be

You make me fight with you / I could never live without you

You make me high

You bring me down

You set me free

You hold me bound to you

I hate you

Then I love you

Then I love you

Then I hate you

Then I love you more / I love you more

For whatever you do / For whatever you do

I never, never, never

Want to be in love with anyone but you

I never, never, never

I never, never, never

I never, never, never

Want to be in love with anyone but you

But you

Am I Ready For A Serious Relationship?

This may sound stupid but this is something that you need to ask yourself. When I talk about serious relationship, it is not about marrying your partner. It is about showing the care and love in front of people especially to your family and your partner’s family.

I observe that almost all people who are not serious in relationships are hiding. What do I mean about hiding? It means only friends know it. Remember that if you decided to have a relationship with someone, you should consider the family. Both couple’s families should know it.

Love is something that you should be proud of and being scared is non sense, if you compare to love. Here are the following information to know if your partner is getting serious in your relationship:

Not afraid to show the real attitude

As a couple, it is really important that you know each other’s attitude. I observe that some people are very kind in front of their partner but it change if they are in front of their families and friends. You should show the real you and nothing but the real you.

Always communicate

No matter how hard it is, she/he is finding ways to communicate. You receive text, calls and ask you to chat even if you just saw each other awhile ago. You can actually feel the concern. People who are not serious are only calling you for gimmicks or something else.

Appearance is not important

You decided to be couple because you love each other. It is not because of the popularity and appearance. I know some people who actually decided to have a relationship because he/she likes the physical appearance. That it is not good at all! You should follow your heart and do not think about what will make you popular in front of many people.

Future Plans Together

Your partner thinks about your future together and not him/her alone. You will see him/her working hard for both of you. People who are not serious just think about short term satisfaction and pleasure.

Sharing information and secrets

People who are not serious, do not give the exact details about them. Yes sir/mam, you read it right! On the other side, you will know that your partner is serious because you hear him/her talking about different information, stories about him/her and most important trust you with secrets.

I love you is easy to say but make sure to take note of the action. Sometimes it works on the other way, he/she cares and love you but do not say I love you most of the time. Well, it is good if you will hear I love you with action.

What To Expect In A Relationship?

They say when you’re in love with someone; you should show it but no matter what other people say. It is also important that you know how to say your feelings to your partner. Words and actions work out together. Love is a specially feeling that everyone is dreaming to have. Well, other people will say that they do not look for love but in the bottom of their heart, they are just waiting for that special someone. What do you think I am trying to say now? Hmmm..let say I want to share some words that I hope can touch everyone’s heart. You can actually disagree but it is how things really flow.

Let me share it now and just read down:

I cannot promise you a happy ending

Who does not want love? You! You’re a liar! I actually do not believe it. The most important word in a relationship is I love you. Almost everyone of us is using it. From the first to the last relationship you’re always mentioning it. What if you will say I cannot promise you a happy ending? Yes, you got me. I am trying to say that it is not like a fairytale with happy ending. Every relationship there is issue to tackle. What do I mean with the words I cannot promise you a happy ending? Well, meaning you will try the best that you can if you’re in a relationship. There are problems but you’re willing to solve the problem because you have the reason and it is Love. Give and take is a must.

We Love each other because we are not perfect

Are there any perfect people you know? For sure you will say none. The point is each of us is not perfect and there are still things to learn. In a relationship, you learn from your partner. Some people are ending up having a relationship with someone who has the opposite attitude but their heart says they love that person. Each of us do not have to be perfect; the most important is you’re trying the best that you can for your relationship.

There is time for everything

I used to hear this back in high school and I believe it also applies in a relationship. I also have this kind of problem and I need to admit that i do not know how to have the right timing but little by little, i am learning it. There is time for sweetness and talk only. Remember that!

Remember that your partner also have a life

It is not because your in the relationship, you will lock your partner around your arms. It is good to advice him/her but never force the things you like. Let him/her do what she/he loves and if you do not like it, instead of shouting and fighting tell him/her the possible result of what will happen. Learn to be humble and remember that two person in love should grow with each. Remember that Trust, Loyalty and communication should also be included.

Learn to give time

In every relationship, you need to learn about time management. It is one of the most important thing you need to remember. Learn to balance your career, family and love life. You decided to be in a relationship so learn to deal with finding time to spend with the partner. Also Remember to remind your partner about your schedule and if he/she loves you, he/she will understand.

Believe me I wrote them because I already experienced them. I am not perfect, I also face problems but I am trying to find ways to stop the fight. Well, I hope you learned a lot from it.

Meaning of Rose Colors

Have you ever given a rose? Are you willing to give one? As a woman, rose is really important to us. It may sounds corny in this generation but it still counts in the heart. Not only one but many guys, keep on asking me about the perfect rose color they will give to a woman.

Rose symbolizes a lot of meaning, which is really important to know. At first, I really do not care about it because I accept any kind of rose color my partner will give as long as it comes from the heart. At this moment of time I am curious about rose colors. So, I decided to check the meaning of rose colors and here it is:

Red Rose

It means “I love you” with deep and romantic love. Aside from that, it also symbolizes enduring passion, respect, perfection and courage. Red rose is the most expensive rose during Valentines Day because everyone wants to give their special someone.

Orange Rose

It means “I desire you”. If you have a new relationship and you want to go on, orange rose is a perfect one to give. It also symbolizes as energy, strong interest and enthusiasm.

Yellow Rose

It means “Welcome Back” for another second chance in a relationship after a fight. It also symbolizes as happiness, independence, caring, friendship and jealousy.

Blue Rose

It means “Hoping for Impossible Love”. Blue roses are only artificial color meaning does not exist in nature. It also symbolizes secret and unachievable.

Peach Rose

It means “Let’s get together”. It also symbolizes as admiration, friendship, sincerity, appreciation, gratitude and sympathy.

White Rose

It means “I miss you”. It also symbolizes purity, youthfulness, innocence, humility, charm and reverence. When it comes to wedding, it means purity and unity of new bond love.

Green Rose

It means “Hoping for Constant renewal of Energy and Life”. It also symbolizes balance, freshness, stability, fertility, richness and peace of mind.

Pink Rose

It means “I admire you”. Pink rose symbolizes appreciation, gentleness admiration, elegance and grace. Darker pink roses symbolize stronger emotions.

Coral Rose

It means “You’ve got my attention”. They say this rose color can be a rose of flirting. It also symbolizes interest to someone without commitment, desire and passion.

Purple/Lavander/Lilac Rose

It means “Love at first sight”. It also symbolizes as enchantment and something that is truly magical.

Burgundy Rose

It means “Sincere Beauty”, which is the favorite of mature women. It also symbolizes unconditional.

Cream Rose

It means “Thank You”. It symbolizes charm, thoughtfulness, perfection, richness and grace.

Black Rose

It means “Death or Death of a relationship”. It does not exist naturally but red rose dark appears to black.

Dead Roses

It means “It’s Over” meaning any kind of roses as long as it is dead.

Now, what color are you willing to give? I like the green rose because peace of mind matters to me a lot.