What To Expect In A Relationship?

What To Expect In A Relationship?

They say when you’re in love with someone; you should show it but no matter what other people say. It is also important that you know how to say your feelings to your partner. Words and actions work out together. Love is a specially feeling that everyone is dreaming to have. Well, other people will say that they do not look for love but in the bottom of their heart, they are just waiting for that special someone. What do you think I am trying to say now? Hmmm..let say I want to share some words that I hope can touch everyone’s heart. You can actually disagree but it is how things really flow.

Let me share it now and just read down:

I cannot promise you a happy ending

Who does not want love? You! You’re a liar! I actually do not believe it. The most important word in a relationship is I love you. Almost everyone of us is using it. From the first to the last relationship you’re always mentioning it. What if you will say I cannot promise you a happy ending? Yes, you got me. I am trying to say that it is not like a fairytale with happy ending. Every relationship there is issue to tackle. What do I mean with the words I cannot promise you a happy ending? Well, meaning you will try the best that you can if you’re in a relationship. There are problems but you’re willing to solve the problem because you have the reason and it is Love. Give and take is a must.

We Love each other because we are not perfect

Are there any perfect people you know? For sure you will say none. The point is each of us is not perfect and there are still things to learn. In a relationship, you learn from your partner. Some people are ending up having a relationship with someone who has the opposite attitude but their heart says they love that person. Each of us do not have to be perfect; the most important is you’re trying the best that you can for your relationship.

There is time for everything

I used to hear this back in high school and I believe it also applies in a relationship. I also have this kind of problem and I need to admit that i do not know how to have the right timing but little by little, i am learning it. There is time for sweetness and talk only. Remember that!

Remember that your partner also have a life

It is not because your in the relationship, you will lock your partner around your arms. It is good to advice him/her but never force the things you like. Let him/her do what she/he loves and if you do not like it, instead of shouting and fighting tell him/her the possible result of what will happen. Learn to be humble and remember that two person in love should grow with each. Remember that Trust, Loyalty and communication should also be included.

Learn to give time

In every relationship, you need to learn about time management. It is one of the most important thing you need to remember. Learn to balance your career, family and love life. You decided to be in a relationship so learn to deal with finding time to spend with the partner. Also Remember to remind your partner about your schedule and if he/she loves you, he/she will understand.

Believe me I wrote them because I already experienced them. I am not perfect, I also face problems but I am trying to find ways to stop the fight. Well, I hope you learned a lot from it.